Dokazi za koje morate znati: Ako zamolite vodu za zdravlje, bićete zdravi

Recite vodi da ste zdravi i bićete zdravi. Recite joj da ste glupi i bićete glupi. Šta god da joj kažete, voda će zapamtiti i tako će i biti. A, ako uzmete u obzir činjenicu da ste sazdani od vode, da ste jedan veliki sunđer natopljen vodom, shvatićete koliko je važna neverovatna sposobnost njenih molekula da PAMTE. I, u zavisnosti od kvaliteta vode koju imate u sebi i kojom ste okruženi, zavisiće i kvalitet vašeg života.

Ovo su relativno nova saznanja za savremenu nauku. Tek pojavom mikroskopa i fotoaparata došlo se do dokaza o ’veličini ’ vode i njenoj moći. Još dvadesetih godina prošlog veka grupa naučnika je tvrdila da je voda ’živa’, da ima svoj život i smrt i da, ako se sa njom nepravilno postupa, ona može i da se razboli i svoje bolesno stanje prenese na sva živa bića. Danas svako može svojim očima da se uveri kakvu transformaciju doživljavaju molekuli vode ukoliko ’slušaju’ Mocarta ili heavy metal, ukoliko neko vreme ’provedu’ pored novorođene bebe ili teškog bolesnika. A, kakvu tek promenu dožive ukoliko joj kažete ’hvala’ ili ’ubiću te’!

Vreme je da promenite svoj odnos prema vodi. Vreme je da prihvatite činjenicu da kvalitet vašeg života zavisi od vašeg pristupa vodi, vaših reči i misli. A, u tome će vam pomoći poslednje veće istraživanje japanskog naučnika Masaru Emota koji se bavio različitim spoljašnjim uticajima na vodu – od zagađenja do reči, misli, muzike, pa i molitve. Izdao je i knjige Poruke skrivene u vodi i Istinska moć vode.

U delu istraživanja čaši sa destilovanom, netretiranom vodom puštao je različitu muziku po nekoliko sati. Nakon zamrzavanja molekula, sa svojim timom je uradio fotografije i primetio neverovatne promene. 

Molekuli vode koji su bili pod 'tretmanom' klasične muzike, promenili su svoj oblik i transformisali se u kristale savršenog oblika sa prelepim baroknim ukrasima, savršenih proporcija, dok je uticaj heavy metal muzike od molekula stvorio formu bez proporcija, gotovo neprijatnu za gledanje. 

Išao je dalje u istraživanju sa željom da ispita uticaj reči i misli na vodu. Ovako su izgledali konačni rezultati.

Sam Masaru Emoto, ako i ostali naučnici koji su doneli fizičke dokaze da voda pamti, zaključuju da „Život kakvim živite i svet u kojem živite zavise samo od vas! Ako mislite i izgovarate reči ljubavi i zahvalnosti, takve će vas i situacije snalaziti. Ako širite pesimizam, strah, nezadovoljstvo ili tugu, takvo će vam biti i okruženje.“

source- http://www.bizlife.rs/vesti/62453-dokazi-za-koje-morate-znati-ako-zamolite-vodu-za-zdravlje-bicete-zdravi

10 Tips From A Shaolin Monk On How To Stay Young Forever

Ten Tips From A Shaolin Monk On How To Stay Young Forever

December 21, 2013 | By WakingTimes | 

Shifu Yan Lei
Waking Times
People always say health is the most important thing but how many people live by this belief? We need to start today. In order to help us stay on the path to health I have translated an extract from one of the Shaolin Classics. Written by a monk who was a great martial artist and scholar, here he gives advice to lay people as to how to stay young and healthy.
Ten Tips From A Shaolin Monk On How To Stay Young 
1) Don’t think too much. Thinking takes energy. Thinking can make you look old.
2) Don’t talk too much. Most people either talk or do. Better to do.
3) When you work, work for 40 minutes then stop for 10 minutes. When you look at something all the time, it can damage your eyes and also your internal organs and peace.
4) When you are happy, you need to control your happiness, if you lose control then you damage your lung energy.

5) Don’t worry too much or get angry because this damages your liver and your intestines.
6) When you eat food don’t eat too much, always make sure you are not quite full as this can damage your spleen. When you feel a bit hungry then eat a little.
7) When you do things, take your time, don’t hurry too much. Remember the saying “Hasten slowly you will soon arrive.”
8) If you only do physical exercise all the time and you never do Qigong this makes you lose your balance and you will become impatient. You lose the Yin of your body. Exercise balances the Yin and the Yang.
9) If you never exercise, just peace, meditation, soft training, Qigong, then this doesn’t give you Yang energy so you use up your Yang energy.
10) Shaolin Gong Fu gives you everything. The purpose of our training is to balance our Yin and Yang. How many hours is not important. It’s down to knowing what your body needs.

About the Author

Shifu Yan Lei is a 34th generation Shaolin Gong Fu Master. Visit his blog here, and you can sign up to his newsletter, monthly training tips and archives. He also offers DVDs and meditative aids.

source- http://www.wakingtimes.com/2013/12/21/ten-tips-shaolin-monk-stay-young-forever/

 

10 Things To Do When You Feel Down

December 9 by Scott Christ in Communication, Motivation |

Any time you’re feeling down, you have two options: 1) keep doing what you’re doing, or 2) do something to try and pick yourself back up. Sometimes number 2 isn’t so easy, though. That’s why we came up with 10 things you can do when you’re not feeling your best to get that smile back on your face.

 

1. Stop being so hard on yourself.

We put a lot pressure on ourselves. While it’s beneficial to aspire to greatness, sometimes you need to sit back, reflect, and recognize all the good things you have going on right now. So when you’re feeling down, try this: think about the things in life you’re grateful for. Focus on what you have … not what you don’t. Stop putting so much pressure on yourself. Be content with who you are right now at this moment. And remember, happiness is a choice.

 

2. Get up and move.

One of the best ways to pick yourself up when you’re having a tough day is to get off your butt and do some exercise. For example, go outside and take a walk. Ride your bike around the block. Go to the gym. Don’t just stay in bed and feel sorry for yourself. Get up, get moving, and get over it.

3. Surround yourself with people you love.

Family and friends can be the best medicine when you have the blues. Even if you can’t see them in person, pick up the phone and call someone you love. Sometimes all you need is a friend to listen to you and help you get some stuff off your chest.

4. Find a way to laugh.

We take life a little too seriously sometimes. But let’s put this in perspective: how you’re feeling right now is one tiny moment out of the thousands you will experience in your life. Know that sadness is temporary. And pick yourself up by watching your favorite funny show, movie, or video online.

5. Eat something healthy.

Guess what most people eat when they feel down? That’s right, junk food. Do the opposite and your body will thank you. Eat healthy foods like vegetables, fruits, nuts, and seeds. Grabbing a healthy snack can help you feel better and fill your body with proper nutrients. That’s a win-win.

6. Take deep breaths.

Focusing on your breathing may not sound like much, but it can make a world of difference if you’re feeling down. So spend a few minutes focusing on nothing except your breath. Take long, slow breaths and get rid of all negative thoughts on each exhale.

7. Spend time with animals.

Pets are therapeutic. And they’re smart. They can sense when you’re sad. Even if you don’t have a dog, cat, or other pet, you likely have a friend who does. So try spending some time around animals and watch your stress melt away.

8. Do something spontaneous and exciting.

You may not feel like doing much when you’re down in the dumps. But one of the best ways to free your mind of those pesky negative thoughts is to go out and do something totally spontaneous. Take an impromptu road trip to go visit a friend you haven’t seen in a while. Visit your favorite store and treat yourself to a new outfit. Volunteer at a homeless shelter. Create some excitement in your life.

9. Read something inspirational.

Words have the power to heal and pick you back up when you’re down. Go online and search for inspirational quotes. Watch a speech from a famous and inspiring leader you admire. Or read a thoughtful or inspiring book.

10. Get some work done.

Here’s an easy way to take your mind off negative thoughts when you’re having a bad day: do some work. Whether it’s your job, doing chores, or working on a project you’re passionate about, getting work done will help you feel productive and free up your mind.

source: http://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/10-things-when-you-feel-down.html

 

 

20 Inspirational Sayings for Growth and Personal Insight

August 26 by Lana Winter-Hébert in Communication 

 

Never underestimate the power of words.
They can inspire us, influence our decisions, and even change our entire outlook on a subject. A single sentence may resonate with a reader on such a level that it can undo years of hurt and heal old wounds, or it may bring about incredible introspection and awareness, leading to change and growth. Words spoken by prominent people have spurred people into action for thousands of years, and there are many people  who owe their greatest successes and personal epiphanies to quotes they’ve read.
Hopefully some of the ones compiled below will resonate with you as well, and if they do, feel free to share them. If some of them happen to be about one particular gender or another, please don’t be put off: the sentiments can be applied to those of any gender, age, or faith.

“Nothing ever happened in the past that can prevent you from being present now, and if the past cant prevent you from being present now, what power does it have?”
–  Eckhart Tolle

“Does anything in nature despair except man? An animal with a foot caught in a trap does not seem to despair. It is too busy trying to survive. It is all closed in, to a kind of still, intense waiting. Is this a key? Keep busy with survival. Imitate the trees. Learn to lose in order to recover, and remember that nothing stays the same for long, not even pain, psychic pain. Sit it out. Let it all pass. Let it go.”
–  May Sarton

“You are Life passing through your body, passing through your mind, passing through your soul. Once you find that out, not with logic, not with the intellect, but because you can feel that Life—you find out that you are the force that makes the flowers open and close, that makes the hummingbird fly from flower to flower. You find out that you are in every tree, and you are in every animal, vegetable, and rock. You are that force that moves the wind and breathes through your body. The whole universe is a living being that is moved by that force, and that is what you are. You are Life.”
– Don Miguel Ruiz

“I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain.”
– Frank Herbert, Dune

“Life is to be lived. If you have to support yourself, you had bloody well better find some way that is going to be interesting. And you don’t do that by sitting around, wondering about yourself.”
– Katharine Hepburn

“It had long since come to my attention that people of accomplishment rarely sat back and let things happen to them. They went out and happened to things.”
– Leonardo da Vinci

“There is nothing more beautiful than seeing a person being themselves. Imagine going through your day being unapologetically you.”
– Steve Maraboli

“What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.”
– Ralph Waldo Emerson

“Thousands of candles can be lit from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared.”
– Buddha

“What the caterpillar calls the end of the world, the master calls a butterfly.”
– Richard Bach

“I am thankful for all of those who said NO to me. Its because of them I’m doing it myself.” 
– Albert Einstein

“The lotus is the most beautiful flower, whose petals open one by one. But it will only grow in the mud. In order to grow and gain wisdom, first you must have the mud—the obstacles of life and its suffering. The mud speaks of the common ground that humans share, no matter what our stations in life. Whether we have it all or we have nothing, we are all faced with the same obstacles: sadness, loss, illness, dying and death. If we are to strive as human beings to gain more wisdom, more kindness and more compassion, we must have the intention to grow as a lotus and open each petal one by one. ”
– Goldie Hawn

“It’s not enough to have lived.
We should be determined to live for something.
May I suggest that it be creating joy for others,
sharing what we have for the betterment of personkind,
bringing hope to the lost and love to the lonely.”
– Leo Buscaglia

“Often misconstrued, authenticity is not about being an open book, revealing every detail of yourself without rhyme or reason. It is simply the act of openly and courageously seeing what needs to be seen, saying what needs to be said, doing what needs to be done, and becoming that which you are intent on being.”
– Scott Edmund Miller

“And above all, watch with glittering eyes the whole world around you because the greatest secrets are always hidden in the most unlikely places. Those who don’t believe in magic will never find it.”
– Roald Dahl

“The greatness of a man can nearly always be measured by his willingness to be kind.”
– G. Young

“Never again clutter your days or nights with so many menial and unimportant things that you have no time to accept a real challenge when it comes along. This applies to play as well as work. A day merely survived is no cause for celebration.”
– Og Mandino

“It takes a great deal of bravery to stand up to our enemies, but just as much to stand up to our friends.”
– J. K. Rowling, Harry Potter and the Philosopher’s Stone

“Every time you do a good deed you shine the light a little farther into the dark. And the thing is, when you’re gone, that light is going to keep shining on, pushing the shadows back.”
– Charles de Lint

“I hope that in this year to come, you make mistakes.
Because if you are making mistakes, then you are making new things, trying new things, learning, living, pushing yourself, changing yourself, changing your world. You’re doing things you’ve never done before, and more importantly, you’re Doing Something.
So that’s my wish for you, and all of us, and my wish for myself. Make New Mistakes. Make glorious, amazing mistakes. Make mistakes nobody’s ever made before. Don’t freeze, don’t stop, don’t worry that it isn’t good enough, or it isn’t perfect, whatever it is: art, or love, or work or family or life.
Whatever it is you’re scared of doing, Do it.
Make your mistakes, next year and forever.”
– Neil Gaiman

source: http://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/20-inspirational-sayings-for-growth-and-personal-insight.html
 

 

 

 

 

7 Essential Ways That Inspirational Quotes Can Literally Change Your Day … and Your Life!

December 18 by Judy Belmont in Communication, Relationships |

Most of us have heard the old adage, “Stop and smell the roses.”  In the hectic pace of our lives, we often forget to slow down, pause, take a breath and reflect for even a couple moments.  This compounds with the fact that in our everyday lives, especially in urban environments, there’s not a rose to be found!  Hence, in our increasingly digital age, how about pausing and reflecting on Inspirational Quotes to help ground us in our busy lives?  We might not be able to find a rose outside our door, but inspirational quotes are everywhere on the internet. You can’t miss them on Facebook, Pinterest, Twitter, and this easy accessibility can attest to a new adage I propose,

 “An Inspirational Quote a Day can keep your keep your negativity away.”

How can inspirational quotes actually change your day and even your life?  Here are 7 reasons that have become crystallized to me from the many comments I have gotten from the 175,000 followers to my own Inspirational Quote Facebook page.

 

1. It’s easier to keep a positive frame of mind if you make Inspirational Quotes a habit.

Everyday annoyances have a lessened negative emotional pull when you focus on the positive message of positive inspirational quotes. As the saying goes, “Perception is more important than reality” and inspirational quotes offer us help in forming healthy perceptions and attitudes.

 

2. Inspirational quotes can serve as a comfort during difficult times of great personal challenges.

They keep hope alive when you are reminded that after the darkness there is always a dawn.  Inspirational posts remind us that hope rises with the sun.

3. Daily inspirations remind you that you are not alone.

Who has not experienced a challenge, setback or disappointment?  Regularly exposing yourself to universal issues that we all share as a virtue of being human serve as a comfort when you feel alone.  The idea that “I am not the only one” is incredibly comforting in times of isolation and personal uncertainty. Furthermore, seeing messages of hope and comfort cutting across all cultures and nationalities all over the world becomes very powerful.

4. No matter how old you are, you are never too old to keep moving forward and build on yesterday.

Inspirational quotes remind you to see your mistakes and setbacks as learning opportunities, and gives you comfort that there is nothing that we can’t learn from. Rather than living in the past and recycling old news, we gain support to move past our regrets and learn from them.

5. Inspirations help remind you what is really important.

In our hectic lives in which we are inundated with the lure of material wealth and “things,” inspirations can help keep us grounded in what is really important.  We are reminded that our perceptions color our world, richness in our relationships make you much richer than all loads of money, and no one can ever have power over you unless you give it to them.

6. If you need help with being better instead of bitter, daily inspirations can help guide you on the journey.

Daily reminders that forgiveness is necessary to live a positive life will help you move on from negativity – not because they always deserve it, but you do.  Inspirational reminders can give you the perspective and strength that releases you from the chains of bitterness that all too often make people prisoners of their past.  Forgiveness, acceptance and compassion melt away the chains of resentment, keeping you stuck in moments of time.

7. Daily Inspirations help you “get through it” when you can’t “get over it.” 

No one gets through life without some scars.  No matter if you have visible scars or ones of the invisible type, they are both scars nonetheless.  Death of loved ones, personal losses, health issues afflicting yourself or those close to you, personal setbacks and shaken confidence rarely, if ever, escape anyone who lives a full and complete life.  Keeping up the regular habit of reading inspirational quotes helps you get through things when you can’t get over them.  

Now here is an action plan on how to use you favorite daily inspiration:

1. Print the quote or inspirational post up and put on prominent places like your desk,mirror or refrigerator.
2.  Use a quote or inspirational post as your computer desktop on your computer and change daily.
3.  Share your quotes with friends and family through email and social media sites such as Facebook, twitter and Pinterest. Create a sharing community of positivity!
4.  In the workplace, frame your daily quote by your desk or office door in an easily changeable plexiglass frame for everyone to be inspired!
5.  Start your office meetings, book groups, family dinners with an inspirational quote to start our the gathering with a shared positive mindset.
7.  Have a daily inspiration for your back pocket!  Carry around in your wallet or back pocket an inspirational quote for the day.
8.  At the end of the day, review how your daily inspiration helped you.  Ask yourself if you kept this positive message in mind, and decide which quote to use for the next day to keep on truckin in a positive direction!

source: http://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/7-essential-ways-that-inspirational-quotes-can-literally-change-your-day-and-your-life.html?utm_source=Lifehack&utm_campaign=b352cf1093-RSS_EMAIL_CAMPAIGN&utm_medium=email&utm_term=0_983e966a3e-b352cf1093-414870493

10 Signs You’re In A Healthy Relationship

10 Signs You’re In A Healthy Relationship

 December 18 by Scott Christ in Communication, Relationships | 

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Relationships are tricky. And there are no shortage of unhealthy ones out there. Check out the cover of any gossip magazine if you want proof of that.
All relationships, however, are filled with ups, downs, and in-betweens. So how do you know you’re in a healthy relationship? Find out here.

 

1. You give each other personal space.

Healthy couples naturally spend a lot of time together. But they also recognize the importance of doing things separately. Personal space is important in any relationship. We all need time to explore, reflect, and express ourselves individually.

 

2. You trust each other.

Great relationships are built on a foundation of trust. Think about a bad relationship you or a friend has been in. Chances are, there were trust issues. Trusting your partner is vital, and it takes time to build. And this just happen to coincide with our next sign you’re in a healthy relationship:

3. You don’t rush milestones.

Couples in healthy relationships recognize that the best things in life are worth waiting for. That’s why they don’t rush important life milestones. They savor every moment of building a life together and take the time to celebrate the important occasions in life.

4. You can talk about anything.

Healthy couples tell each other everything. Speaking your mind can be incredibly difficult at times, but people in healthy relationships don’t hold back–even when the truth hurts.

5. You inspire each other to be better.

Healthy relationships are also built on mutual motivation and inspiration. Your partner should inspire you to be your best self, to face difficult challenges, and to change the world. Those in unhealthy relationships are content with mediocrity.

6. You appreciate the little things.

Life’s most beautiful moments often sneak up on us and catch us off-guard. Healthy couples recognize and appreciate these moments when they occur. They know the small, seemingly insignificant moments are what makes life worth sharing.

7. You accept each other for who you are.

People in healthy relationships accept each other, flaws and all. This doesn’t mean you should encourage your significant other to accept mediocrity. It does, however, mean you should accept who your partner chooses to be. Remember, there are cracks in everything, but that’s how the light gets in.

8. You hold each other up during tough times.

Life will throw you lemons every now and then. It’s inevitable. A tell-tale sign of a healthy relationship is how you support each other during these trying times. Don’t be afraid to cry together and experience pain and suffering. Tragic events often take our breath away and make us feel like the world around us is caving in. But the fact that you’re still here means you have a 100 percent success rate with overcoming tough times.

9. You’re able to let go of the past.

People in healthy relationships know that failure and mistakes are nothing but pathways to attainment. They don’t let past stumbles dictate their current relationship. We can be hurtful creatures at times. But as long as we use these moments to grow and learn, our relationships can become stronger. This leads into our final sign you’re in a healthy relationship:

10. Your relationship has gotten stronger over time.

The ultimate sign of a relationship that’s sustainable for the long-term is that it slowly builds, developing deeper roots with each passing year. There are lots of things that help make this happen (see above). I think most importantly, people in healthy relationships take the time to say (and mean) the following words often:

1. I love you.
2. Thank you.
3. I’m sorry.

I’ll leave you to ponder this quote from the late, great David Foster Wallace.

The really important kind of freedom involves attention and awareness and discipline, and being able truly to care about other people and to sacrifice for them over and over in myriad petty, unsexy ways every day.

source:  http://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/10-signs-youre-healthy-relationship.html?utm_source=Lifehack&utm_campaign=b352cf1093-RSS_EMAIL_CAMPAIGN&utm_medium=email&utm_term=0_983e966a3e-b352cf1093-414870493

Kako znaš da te netko stvarno voli?

Kako znaš da te netko stvarno voli?

    Objavio Čarobna šuma dana 26.12.2012.

Piše: Osho

Postoje tri nivoa u čovjeku: fiziološki – tijelo, psihološki – um, i njegovo biće – njegova vječna suština. Ljubav može postojati na sva tri nivoa, ali njena kvaliteta može varirati. Na nivou fiziologije tijela, to je samo seks. Možeš to zvati ljubavlju, jer riječ ljubav zvuči poetično i lijepo; 99% ljudi seks zove ljubavlju. Seks je biološki, fizički. Tvoja kemija, tvoji hormoni – sve materijalno je uključeno u to.
Zaljubiš se u ženu ili muškarca. Možeš li točno opisati čime te je ova žena privukla? Sigurno ne možeš vidjeti njeno biće, jer ne poznaješ ni vlastito biće. Niti možeš prepoznati njenu psihu, jer čitati nekom misli nije lak zadatak. Dakle, što si ti našao u toj ženi? Nešto u tebi fizički, kemijski, u tvojim hormonima je privučeno od strane hormona žene, njenog fizičkog, njene kemije. To nije stvar ljubavi, već stvar kemije.
Razmisli ponovo: Žena u koju si se zaljubio ode kod doktora i promijeni spol, i sada joj raste brada. Hoćeš li je i dalje voljeti? Ništa se nije promijenilo, samo kemija, samo hormoni. Gdje je sad tvoja ljubav?

Samo 1% ljudi su ušli malo dublje. Pjesnici, slikari, glazbenici, plesači i pjevači imaju dovoljno senzibilnosti da osjete ono što nadilazi tjelesno. Oni mogu osjetiti ljepotu Duha, osjećajnost Srca, jer i sami žive na toj razini.
Zapamti ovo kao opće pravilo: Ne možeš vidjeti dalje od onoga gdje i sam prebivaš. Ako živiš u svom tijelu i misliš da si samo tijelo, tada možeš biti privučen samo nečijim tijelom. To je tjelesni stadij ljubavi. Ali glazbenik, slikar ili pjesnik živi na drugoj razini. On ne misli, on osjeća jer živi srcem i može osjetiti srce druge osobe. Ovo je često nazvano ljubavlju. To je rijetko – kažem možda u 1% slučajeva – ali s vremena na vrijeme se dogodi.
Zašto velika većina ljudi ne ide na drugi nivo gdje je toliko lijepo? E tu je problem: Sve je to jako lijepo, ali je i jako osjetljivo. Nije od čelika napravljeno, već od vrlo krhkog stakla, a kad ogledalo padne i razbije se, nema načina da se opet sastavi. Ljudi se boje da se ne upletu preduboko, da ne dostignu krhke nivoe ljubavi, jer na ovom nivou je nevjerojatno lijepo, ali i nevjerojatno promjenjivo.
Osjećaji nisu kao stijene, oni su kao latice ruže. Bolje je imati plastične cvjetove ruže, jer će uvijek biti tu i možeš ih oprati svaki dan i uvijek će izgledati svježe. Također, možeš ih poprskati francuskim parfemom. Ako boja izblijedi možeš ih ponovo obojati. Plastika je jedna od neuništivih stvari na ovom svijetu, stabilna je, izdržljiva. Zato ljudi ostaju na fizičkoj razini ljubavi. To je površno, ali je stabilno.
Pjesnici i umjetnici se znaju zaljubiti gotovo svakodnevno. Njihova ljubav je kao ruža. I dok je tu, ona je tako mirisna, tako živa, i pleše u svoj ljepoti na vjetru, na kiši, na suncu. Ali kad dođe večer, ona možda prođe, i ne možeš ništa učiniti da to spriječiš. Ta dublja ljubav srca je kao dašak vjetra koji ti uđe u sobu, donese svježinu, i ode. Ne možeš vjetar zadržati šakom.
Malo je onih koji su hrabri prepustiti se životu koji se svakog trena mijenja. Zato odlučuju zaljubiti se na siguran način u koji se pouzdaju. Ne znam koju ti vrstu ljubavi poznaješ – vjerojatno prvi tip, možda drugi tip. I uplašen si: Kad stigneš do vlastitog Bića, šta će se desiti s tvojom ljubavlju? Sigurno će nestati – ali nećeš izgubiti ama baš ništa. Nova vrsta ljubavi će se izdići, ona koja se pojavi kod jednog od milijun ljudi. Ova ljubav se može nazvati “ispunjenost ljubavlju”.
Prva vrsta ljubavi bi se trebala nazvati “seks”. Drugi tip bi trebalo nazvati “ljubav”. A treći bi se trebao nazvati “ispunjenost ljubavlju” – to je kvaliteta koja nije usmjerena ni na koga – nije posesivna i ne priznaje da netko drugi posjeduje tebe. Ova kvaliteta ljubavi je tako korjenita (radikalna) revolucija, da je već teško i predstaviti si je.
Novinari me pitaju: “Zašto je ovdje toliko puno žena?” Očigledno važno pitanje, i šokirani su kad im kažem, jer nisu očekivali odgovor koji im rekoh – “Ja sam muškarac.” Tada su me gledali s nevjericom. Rekoh im: “Jasno je da će mnogo više žena biti ovde iz jednostavnog razloga – jer znaju da su za svog života naučile ili seks, ili u rijetkim slučajevima, par momenata ljubavi. Ali nisu naučile okus Voljenja. Čak i muškarci koje vidite ovdje, su razvili ženske osobine u sebi koje su bile potisnute od društva oko njih.“
Od početka kažete dječaku: “Ti si dečko, a ne djevojčica. Ponašaj se kao dečko. Djevojčice plaču, ti nemoj. Ponašaj se kao muškarac.“ I tako svaki dječak počinje odbacivati svoje ženske osobine. A sve što je lijepo je žensko. Na kraju ostanu samo barbarski životinjski ostaci. Njegova jedina funkcija je da pravi djecu. Djevojčice ne smiju imati muške osobine. Ako se želi pentrati na drvo odmah će je zaustaviti: “To je za dečke, a ne za djevojčice.“ Čudno! Ako djevojčica želi popeti se na drvo, to je sam po sebi dovoljan razlog da joj to dozvolite.
U svim društvima kroz povijest za muškarce i žene je razvijana različita garderoba. To nije ispravno, jer svaki muškarac je također i žena. Jer nastao je iz dva izvora: svog oca i svoje majke. Oboje su doprinijeli njegovom postojanju. I svaka žena je također i muškarac. Mi smo ih oboje uništili. Žene su svoju hrabrost, avanturizam, prosuđivanje i logiku izgubile, jer se vjerovalo da su ovo muške osobine. A muškarci su izgubili svoj šarm, svoju osjećajnost, suosjećajnost i ljubaznost. I oboje egzistiraju polovično. Ovo je najveći problem koji treba riješiti – bar po pitanju ljudi.
Moji sanjasini (učenici) moraju biti oboje, polumuško i polužensko, i to ih obogaćuje. Imat ćete sve karakteristike koje su dostupne ljudima, ne samo polovicu. Stižući u točku Bića okružuje te samo jedno svojstvo ljubavi – kao miris. Novinari su me pitali: “Voliš li Šilu?” rekoh: “Naravno, ali ja volim toliko žena da im čak ne znam ni imena. I ne samo žene – ja volim i toliko muškaraca, jer su polužene.“ S milijun sanjasina po cijelom svijetu, ja ne mogu pokazati samo na jednu osobu i reći: “Ovu osobu ja volim.“, ja mogu samo reći: “Ja volim!“. Tko je spreman primiti moju ljubav, uzima je – ona je tu. Zato nemajte straha. Vaša briga je opravdana: Ono za što mislite da je ljubav nestat će, ali ono što će zauzeti njeno mjesto je ogromno i bez kraja. Bit ćete sposobni voljeti bez vezivanja. Moći ćete voljeti mnogo ljudi, jer ako volite jednu osobu, ostajete siromašni. Ta jedna osoba vam može dati neko iskustvo ljubavi, ali mnogo ljudi vole.
Bit ćete zapanjeni da vam svaka osoba daje novi osjećaj, novu pjesmu, novi oblik ekstaze. Zato sam ja protiv braka. U mojoj viziji, brak bi u zajednici trebalo ukinuti. Ljudi mogu živjeti zajedno, ako to žele, ali to nije zakonska neophodnost. Trebali bi imati slobodu kretanja i koliko god je moguće više iskustva ljubavi. Ne trebate biti posesivni, želja za posjedovanjem uništava ljubav. I ne trebate dozvoliti da vas netko posjeduje, jer i to također uništava ljubav.
Svi ljudi zaslužuju biti voljeni. Nema potrebe da se vežete za jednu osobu cijeli život. To je jedan od razloga zašto je ljudima u cijelom svijetu tako dosadno. Zašto se ne mogu smijati kao vi, plesati kao vi? Oni su vezani nevidljivim lancima: brak, obitelj, muž, žena, djeca. Prepunjeni su obavezama, odgovornostima, žrtvovanjem. A vi se želite smiješiti, smijati, plesati i biti sretni? Očekujete nemoguće! Oslobodi ljubav ljudi od posesivnosti. Ali ovo se može desiti samo ako u svojoj meditaciji otkriješ svoju suštinu.
Nema obuke. Ja ti ne kažem: “Za vježbu, idi noćas drugoj ženi.“ Nećeš ništa postići, a možeš izgubiti svoju ženu. Sljedećeg jutra bit ćeš neugodno iznenađen. Nije stvar u vježbanju, već u otkrivanju svog bića. S otkrićem svog bića nastaje neosobna “ispunjenost ljubavlju“. Tada jednostavno voliš. I to se konstantno širi, prvo ljudi, pa ubrzo životinje, drveće, planine, zvijezde. I doći će dan kada će sveopće postojanje biti tvoja ljubavnica. To je tvoj potencijal. I svako tko ga ne postigne potratio je život.
Da, morat ćeš izgubiti par stvari, ali one su bezvrijedne. Dobit ćeš toliko da nećeš nikad pomišljati na to što si izgubio. Čista, neosobna “ispunjenost ljubavlju“, koja prodire u suštinu svakog ljudskog bića – to nastaje iz meditativnog svojstva tišine i dubokog uranjanja u svoje biće. Ja samo pokušavam nagovoriti te. Ne plaši se izgubiti to što imaš.
Osho – “Od smrti do besmrtnosti“, 17. poglavlje

source: http://carobna-suma.com/2012/12/26/kako-znas-da-te-netko-stvarno-voli/